I am back!

It's good to open this blog and see even with being away for more than a month you guys (and girls) are still reading. Thank you!
Having a child is an earth-shattering event and I spill over of excitement and love for my baby, yet this is not the place for it. This blog is the dommelette, an important part of my personality. So after this no more baby stuff but more of the usual wicked, kinky stuff you all love me for :D
Just let you peek one time at the new man in my life, born on July 11 2014.


Our secret lives

I was thinking by myself this week if the people around me would know about my secret life, what would they think about me? They love me and some of them are my friends since kindergarten en yet I can not tell them I love dominating men and make them squeal and beg.
And then I thought, what if everyone has their own secrets?
What if the friendly guy at the bank in tie and suit is someone who likes to crawl around on his knees wearing a leather mask? It made me chuckle and my fantasy go wild.
I want everyone to be bdsm dudes (except my mom and dad, ugh!)


Entwined with you

Your chest, my heart, your face, my lips, your fingers, my hand. 
Our souls, our bodies, our minds connected. 
Thriving, breathing, growing on closeness and distance.
On words of love, soft sighs and silence.
You are mine, I am yours. 
Entwined with you.
And you with me.


Fap Time!

Science suggests people who watch porn have smaller brains

Interesting article! Men who watch porn have smaller brains.
"German researchers studied a group of 64, composed of males aged 21 to 45. In the brains of the people who watch porn, the researchers found that the striatum — a portion of the brain related to processing rewards — is smaller. In this case, reward influences motivation, rather than someone being able to figure out, for example, the literal result of completing a task."
(read full article here)
Should I stop finding the right porn for you horny knuckle draggers? Na-ah!
I want to make sure your striatum motivates you to come and read my blog. The usual reward: fap-fap-fap!
I think this study is a joke because 64 men? And what if bigger brain men are just better at lying about watching porn? And what about women?


Daddy is stuck on my machine.

Sometimes you better be careful what you wish for. Because once that machine starts, it does not stop until those balls are as empty as two dried figs in a paper bag. Ah the blessings of technology!
*grins evilly*


The Dark Style Fair

"Are you tired of pretty, pink, cutesy fashion fairs? Love being different? Breaking the moult of pixel perfect fashion fairs, Flair for Events brings you the Dark Style."
May 17th to June 7th @ Dragon Spyre 170.103. 24
*spends dumbo's money* All of it! 

The Dominion's Eva talking out of her ass again...

And it stinks. Eeew! A friend dropped this notecard on me yesteray of his chat with Eva from the Dominion, it seems things did not change there yet. How insecure can you be to get upset if someone's not answering your hello right away in a virtual world? 

 "[10:57] Evangeline Eames: next time you come on sim and ignore a greeting you get banned
[10:57] Evangeline Eames: that's bullshit for a sub to act that way at a femdom
[10:57] **-Dra: i was just tping around
[10:57] Evangeline Eames: I don't care
[10:57] **-Dra: you can ban me now if this boosts your ego
[10:58] Evangeline Eames: you don't come to a femdom and ignore a greeting
[10:58] Evangeline Eames: well I think I will..clear some of the stupid out
[10:58] Evangeline Eames: have a nice day
[10:58] **-Dra: i did not even see that you greeted me because i was searching in my landmarks
[10:58] **-Dra: yes
[10:58] Evangeline Eames: that's fine..but that's not the correct response to a correction
[10:58] **-Dra: you should it would show that you have nothing in live except sl
[10:58] Evangeline Eames: yeah yeah
[10:59] **-Dra: that you cannot argument on a normal human foundation
[10:59] Evangeline Eames: no it would show that we don't tolerate impolite people here
[10:59] **-Dra: please go ahead
[10:59] **-Dra: poor thing
[10:59] Evangeline Eames: I will..bye :)"

 Disclaimer: I did not post the end of the conversation because it's a waste of space (repeat blablabla) and I changed the name of the guy on his request. My spelling corrector also cleaned out the typos of both of them.

Dear Eva, as a Domme you are supposed to have someone else's head op your ass, not your own :D 


Oh noes, my vagina!

Conversation with my very mean sister translated from dutch:
"We are sitting in the garden together, she has her shirt tied up and the edge of her shorts pushed down to tan her skin and I am admiring her flat tummy that looks like she never was pregnant, no stripes, no marks, no fat. So we talk about all the changes after birth and then I ask:
Me: What about your vagina, did that change?
She: Omg yes, the change is really bad!
Me with slight panic in my voice: How do you mean?
She: A baby head goes through, you know?
Me: Yes but it resets to normal, right?
She: No, my guy says it feels exactly the same as hanging his dick in a bathing cap...
My face turns pale and I look at her in disbelief. Then she bends over and laughs and keeps laughing.
No matter what she said after I was so startled and worried she took me to the bathroom and let me look at her vagina."
I read online it has to do with different factors: the size of the baby, genetics, the state of pelvic muscles. You subbies all get on your knees and pray to whatever god you believe in that the dommelette vagina may return to it's former shape!
Now time to interview my mom.


The goldfinch

You remember the movie The Reader? How a young boy reads books to the woman he loves?
There is something so comforting and loving, to have your mind travel on the vibrations of your loved one's voice.

Donna Tart is one of my favorite authors, her book The Secret History is my all time bbfe!
You can only imagine how thrilled I was when her new book The Goldfinch hit the shelves (she won the Pulitzer Prize 2014 for fiction btw)
For a while now we buy digital books and I read them on my iPad as it is so convenient, my bookshelves in my handbag following me wherever I go!

I did not buy The Goldfinch, I made Domani buy it and read it to me in recorded mp3 files.

This man is on the other side of the world, busy with the reality of his life, but I swear, when I hear his voice in my ears, he is right next to me, kneeling beside my sun bed in the grass, reading to me. And my eyes close and I am with Theo at the museum. The rhythm of Domani's words, every little emotion in his voice, the way he catches his breath, the soft sound of his mouth as he swallows, all of that my perfect vehicle to bring me where I want and need to be in that very moment.

Then I open my eyes again and so much time passed and it feels as if I returned from an adventure or a parallel universe. As if I need to wake up, a little dazed, staring at my reflection in the mirror. I look like a panda that blew in a poo, the shape of my sunglasses burned in my face sprinkled with a another layer of freckles.
And then I spill over because an amazing and overwhelming feeling washes over me. Being loved and adored by a man who is my sub, but a Master at making me feel like the Queen of the World.
Thank you, Domani, for being you, for making me be who I am when with you
Everyone else: buy it, read it!

The magical miniature world of Vyacheslav Mishchenko

Talented Ukrainian nature photographer Vyacheslav Mishchenko has an eye for taking photos that bring small natural worlds up to our level, showing us how the world might look if we could see it through the eyes of an ant, snail or lizard. Truly magical

Waves - Mr. Probz

My face above the water
My feet can't touch the ground,
Touch the ground, and it feels like
I can see the sands on the horizon
Everytime you are not around
I'm slowly drifting away (drifting away)
Wave after wave, wave after wave
I'm slowly drifting (drifting away)
And it feels like I'm drowning
Pulling against the stream
Pulling against the stream
I wish I could make it easy
Easy to love me, love me
But still I reach, to find a way
I'm stuck here in between
I'm looking for the right words to say
I'm slowly drifting, drifting away
Wave after wave, wave after wave
I'm slowly drifting (drifting away)
                        And it feels like I'm drowning
                       Pulling against the stream
                       Pulling against the stream


XXX Story: An afternoon of torment- by William


In all my years visiting professional mistresses, rather ironically, by far the most explosive, mind shattering episode I ever experienced and from which I never fully recovered, occurred during a visit to an absolute beginner and a complete novice at that profession. The following account is I believe an accurate record of the session as I still remember most details quite vividly, but there were some occasions where I believe I may have had moments of blackout or was not fully compos mentis for short periods.


Ways to kiss

A nibble, a soft bite, a lick, a light peck, a wet suck, a warm kiss... so many ways to claim that tempting spot in your neck.


Watch, watch, watch...

Watch this in HD and learn why the immerse world of ESO keeps me captivated. E v e r y  prim be it a house, a perfect outfit or a super-sized genital is utter boredomme after facing the challenges in Tamriel. There is a kneel animation in ESO too btw, so maybe cowboy up and play this game with me? :D


The basement

I left you. Tied to the wooden beam.
Your anxious breathing. The pain of standing on your knees and not knowing.
Anticipating what comes and wont go.
I force you to stay in this endless fascinating moment.


Where am I?

Yes, it is quiet around the dommelab lately. It has two reasons. First, the excitement of the little baby boy in my belly growing steadily (13 weeks to go! woo!) and yes, it's the first Easter I actually look like an egg :). So I walk around the house like a hen nesting, cleaning out every corner and change our apartment from a twenty something shag to a warm, post detol-treatment, baby-proof home. And second, but not the least, I am addicted to Elder Scrolls Online. Bare with me, sweet readers, these addictions never last long :) Soon I am back to torture your thoughts and ruin your Second Life :)


Time for some romance...

This is a song Domani sent me last night and the lyrics made me swoon, this is the version with my favorite Lindsey


Where's my doggy?



Lick This!

Oh finally the right way to train those pussy trolls. Your Mistress can now watch your scores or have you do long sessions. No pain, no gain, right? Make selfies and show me!


Baby, I don't know
Just why I love you so
Maybe it's just the way
That God made me this day                                  

Honey, I hear you
And I feel for you
It won't be too long till
We're back as one again


Virtual Venice...

"Sei pur bella, Venezia, in mezzo all'onde
 Specchio tranquillo ai monumenti alteri" 

Venice in Second Life, very well done... 
"Take a break and visit this intricate recreation of Venice, sure to dazzle the senses. Gondolas, masks, gondolas and more await in the Queen of the Adriatic, Venice City ..."
Take your Miss out on this romantic trip here 

My Lap & Lick Lover


I like my body when it is with your

I like my body when it is with your body. 
It is so quite new a thing.
Muscles better and nerves more.
I like your body. I like what it does,
I like its hows. I like to feel the spine
of your body and its bones, and the trembling
-firm-smoothness and which I will
again and again and again kiss, 
I like kissing this and that of you,
I like, slowly stroking the, shocking fuzz
of your electric furr, and what-is-it comes
over parting flesh….And eyes big love-crumbs,
and possibly I like the thrill
of under me you so quite new

E.E. Cummings


Esther Perel - The secret to desire in a long term relationship

Was reading an interview in my favorite magazine about this Belgian native, psychotherapist Esther Perel. Watch this Ted Talk to learn the secret to desire in a long term relationship. It makes sense why people with a happy marriage venture in a world like Second Life looking for adventure and thrill.

"Perel’s ideas are … instantly familiar because they resonate deeply. It’s all rather terrifying in its intuitiveness and its pure rightness." — The Observer (UK)

My cum dumpster


L'amoureuse- Paul Eluard

Elle est debout sur mes paupières
Et ses cheveux sont dans les miens,
Elle a la forme de mes mains,
Elle a la couleur de mes yeux,
Elle s'engloutit dans mon ombre
Comme une pierre sur le ciel.
Elle a toujours les yeux ouverts
Et ne me laisse pas dormir.
Ses rêves en pleine lumière
Font s'évaporer les soleils,
Me font rire, pleurer et rire,
Parler sans avoir rien à dire 


Should I change your name to Peggy?

Roses are red, violets are blue. The dommelette is pegging you!



Fashion & Style

The second best thing after shopping is taking pictures of what I bought


My toy

First I got your clothes off, then blinded your face, denied you the privilege to look at me. Between my legs, standing on your knees, my toy.
I claimed your cock, your lust, your pleasure.
And as I heard your moans, your huffs, your little gulps my core got touched with little zings of energy. And now I float.


Reviews on my Marketplace Store are usually good, today I found this one that actually made me laugh.
Note that this is about my skybox Master version, where the title says Broken House, has 13 pictures added to it and can be seen in world completely rezzed.
Blond moment I guess?


SL Discussions: One Man Show?

Let me start with what a non-English speaker like me defines as a discussion:
 "dis•cus•sion (dɪˈskʌʃ ən)  n.
an act or instance of discussing; consideration or examination by argument, comment, etc.; informal debate." 
(Yep, right from the schoolbooks!)
I am in a few philosophy groups in Second Life, where from time to time if an interesting item pops up in my timezone, I will go and listen. Just listen while I browse the interwebs as most of these discussions are held in voice.
And today: 
[07:58] Julie: revolutionary new discussion meeting for any of oyu deep thinkers out there who want to talk about life, im me for a TP

How can one resist, right?
Usually I read the inviter's profile swiftly but this time I did not. Once there the revolutionary conversation was briefly about dead to go on to dreaming.
Where the host-typer claimed to have deep conversations with people in his dreams which led to him ask us what we think of these people: 
Julie: 1. your own subconscious mind
Julie: 2. another person
Julie: 3. another entity or something
Julie: 4. or all of them or mix of them
I answered that he was talking to different parts of his own personality (based on what a few psychiatrists wrote on this subject and so for myself a reasonable explanation). Offended!
"Are you stating a fact?"
He then got quickly upset telling me I am a mold and not creative or authentic as I come with other people's opinion because I am not able to have my own opinion. Followed by fuk scientists. 
The people in his dreams are real.

I left the discussion to avoid drama.
Back at my own place I read his profile and was kind of overwhelmed by the amount of delusion. 
If I had read it before I would have seen it coming. 
Some keywords: bipolar, unique awesomeness, transgender, sensitive, deep as the ocean.
Some of his groups: God-fearing Christians, Church of Satan, Mental Illness Support Group, Suicide Pact, Depression Support Group, Yes I am a T-Girl, Borderline Personality Disorder, UFO Stories and a lot more. Duh.

And it kind of struck me, many discussions in Second Life are held not to have a discussion per se but to be the center piece of attention, to fulfill that need to be seen and heard. No matter what the subject is about, no matter how authoritative the host speaker about the subject, one should just nod and agree. I have experienced this on many occasions at the Gateway, the walhalla of the bdsm discussion. Do not talk back/type unless to confirm what the speaker said preferably with an example of your own experience to beef up his/her statement. 
There are of course some brilliant speakers in Second Life, and I have witnessed several nice discussions. As they say in my language: "the exception makes the rule" (doesn't make sense to you, I guess :P)
In the following weeks I am gonna visit more discussions round and about to test this. I let you know the results in detail with some chats to read. :) 
If you want to join the dommelette on this quest, drop me a line in world.

Will waterboard you with my sex

There is no better picture than this. You. Naked, tied up. Helpless.
Every muscle in your body has its own life. Tension. Trembling.
Your breath comes in short and long huffs, a rhythm lost.
Anticipating my long list of punishments. Your brain a roller coaster of thoughts.
How sweet the power of your imagination.
I can just stand here and stare at you. And your mind shifts. That intense moment just before.
Knowing all the things I will do to you.
Hoping I wont.
Wishing I will.