Finding Now...

what in the world is now
when mind of me twists time to past
then future
then past
skating over ice of now

ice cracks
to freezing water
when now is lost to heavy gaze of
wish I were
wish I was

closed eyes find Her hand always there

wrapping around this soul
loving warmth
to right here right now

eyes open to here

we sit in the moment with quiet roar
tender souls flying with each other
blue of sky
white of clouds
fresh cool of oxygen

all blend to the richness of now
where life lives
mine and Mine

forever and those most delicious three days
written by Domani 30/12/2013


Dressed to kill...

This week I got contacted by a guy named Shadow and he told me he had a blog. Dressed to kill. Now you subbies do no longer have an excuse to walk around like eyesores. Go take a look and please our eyeballs :)
/me enables trap to catch cute elven subs


Holiday Wishes!

Sent out to our friends today, for all who missed it posted here...


The institute for Male Correction

One of my finds on my tour in search for femdom places for the Travel Guide blog: The Institute for Male Correction.
"Is your man a compulsive wanker? Does his lack of discipline stress your relationship? The Institute for Male Correction might be able to help."
Made me chuckle. And. Upstairs they have my iEdge table. Nice place to roleplay or leave your naughty subbie behind to learn some important lessons.


My new favorite song...

How long will I love you?
As long as stars are above you,
And longer if I can

How long will I need you?
As long as the seasons need to
Follow their plan

How long will I be with you?
As long as the sea is bound to
Wash upon the sand

How long will I want you?
As long as you want me to,
And longer by far

How long will I hold you?
As long as your father told you,
As long as you can

How long will I give to you?
As long as I live through you,
However long you say

How long will I love you?
As long as stars are above you,
And longer if I may

We're all traveling through time together
Every day of our lives
All we can do is do our best
To relish this remarkable ride


I spy something naughty...

Did you read about NSA, FBI and CIA strolling into our virtual worlds Your dommelette's opinion: like every other man and women they have needs and love to play from work. In search of terrorists is just a perfect answer for your chief, right? I am investigating all my virtual friends and acquaintances should they be a secret agent. Time for torture! 


The paradise of broken hearts

As a few of you will have noticed, my time online has reduced significantly, a few important things are happening in my real life, my focus changed. As weird as it sounds when I log in to answer messages and emails I feel like a stranger in my beloved virtual world.
My messages read like the report of a gossip paper. Drama. Hurt. More drama. And then I realize this the same universal (virtual) love-story. Over and over.
I met Domani in Februari of 2012. Our relationship grows and does not fade. He is as real to me as any friend or family member in my real life.
Why does it work for us?  Because of who we are or are we just lucky?
Why not for those other thousands of people?
Over time I have tried to help my friends (male and female), attempting to unravel the reason for their returning heart aches. I strongly believe time is our best companion in Second Life. If you meet someone and he/she speeds things up you can bet you are in for another bite in the dust.
If someone tells you they love you after 1 week, you must be aware that this is impossible. This is alternating loving you with being in love with love. Creating the illusion of love to feel loved.
Why is it no one seems to learn from their broken hearts and repeat this speedy cycle over and over?
Would be interesting to talk about this to a psychologist.
I found this old but great article about it and hope you will read it here


For my aviator...

love is more thicker than forget
more thinner than recall
more seldom then a wave is wet
more frequent than to fail

it is most mad and moonly
and less it shall unbe
than all the sea which only
is deeper than the sea

love is less than always than to win
less never than alive
less bigger than the least begin
less littler than forgive

it is most sane and sunly
and more it cannot die
than all the sky which only
is higher than the sky




Feel the cold
of my penetrating gaze.
The cold
of my anger
creep over your bare skin.
Feel the cold
of the pain I give you.
The cold
of my tough love
beat in your heart.
Feel the cold
of my fading footsteps.
Feel the cold
freeze your soul,
each breath painful,
deep anxiety.
Did she leave me?
or is this just what I deserve:
Charlotte 26/11/2013


XXX Story: Better than a handjob

My girlfriend and I are laying in bed on a saturday morning, letting our breakfast digest. She's
laying on the bed in one of her shirts and a pair of my boxer shorts on her hips.
I'm laying next to her reading a boring book, and of course feeling quite horny. Just looking at her as
she uses as her computer starts making me get hard. I'm wearing boxers and no shirt, and my dick
starts to rise up in my shorts.
She looks over at it without moving her head, and says, "Hmm. Looks like someone's feeling horny
today," and smiles.
I roll on to my side and place my left hand on her breast, kiss her cheek, and whisper, "You look
beautiful," into her ear.
Obviously I'm hoping to get lucky.


Forever + 3 days

You are not drowning,
You are not lost.
Feel your hand,
I am still holding it.



Good Morning Lover

good morning lover 
it's time to wake up 
look what the new day brought 
a promise of rain 
a roar of thunder 
a flash of lightning 
a trembling that shakes us 
like an earthquake 
as we hold each other tight 
as love flows like magma 
we rock there together 
in the dawn's smoldering 
light hours pass, 
time stands still 
you whisper moan into my ear 
mmmmmmmmmm I love you 
 I smile and stroke your face 
and gaze in to your eyes 
such a wonderful day for a storm 


I slaved all day!

ALANIAS CFNM & Femdom Studios

 My mom blessed me with an early visit today, pointing I should not sit on my computer when the sky is blue and the sun is shining. I told her my other option is playing Wii all day. That upsets her as the sun is magnifying the patterns of dirt on my (14) windows for the whole neighborhood to see what a slob of a daughter she has. After a 30 minutes mother-daughter debate she went to pick up her Karcher and is doing her magic on my windows while I browse the wonders of SL to find something entertaining for you.
Alanias CNFM & Femdom Studios is the in-world location of www.alanias.net and is the maker of erotic novels. I bought a 3 part book The Model and it works like a cartoon book, pictures with chat balloons. Really a great idea!


Birdy - Wings

I'm in a foreign state
My thoughts they slip away
My words are leaving me
They caught an aeroplane
Because I thought of you
Just from the thought of you

Oh lights go down
In the moment we're lost and found
I just wanna be by your side
If these wings could fly
Oh damn these walls
In the moment we're ten feet tall
And how you told me after it all
We'd remember tonight
For the rest of our lives


XXX Story: The first level

written by Busy Peat 

I saw her one day in the library and noticed her already while I walked in. Her cute face, her white teeth, Arabic-complexioned and her velvet like black hair caught my attention immediately. Since I am sometimes a little bit shy I did not choose the spot next to her but one from where I could safely observe her a couple of benches away. The whole morning I did not get anything done on my thesis since I either watched her back, her magnificent hair and slim shoulders and arms or fantasized about her. A hundred pick-up lines went through my head but were quickly dismissed till they seemed either too cheesy or too boring.

Suddenly she left her seat and headed for the exit. Her books on the table gave me the secure feeling that she probably only left for lunch. I did the same but only walked passed her, trying to look as little as possible at her. Since I only wrote my thesis here but did not really know anybody at this uni, I had my lunch alone on the grass in the sun on a spot from where I could observe her and her girlfriends joking and eating. I could not feel less confident to walk up to her and talk to her. She was around 1,65, slim and had a handful of breast. She looked absolutely stunning and her –for me- exotic appearance just added extra to that. Her body language told me that she is self confident and knows what she wants. Since I like strong women her body language alone turned me on (Even though I am never really sure if a woman is strong or it comes out of my wishing).



Maybe, I know it’s just maybe
And we’re only dreaming
For how this will go, o-o-oh

But maybe, one day this daydream
Would turn into real things
For all that we know, o-o-oh

We could be doing anything that we love
Just be carried by the way the wind blows, o-o-oh
You could be doing anything you dream of
If you believe in the things that make you strong

Someday, we’ll meet on the high street
We’ll laugh about when we
Worried about what we might be

Then maybe, we’ll talk about old days
We’ll smile in our old ways
You’ll always be part of me

We could be doing anything that we love
Just be carried by the way the wind blows, o-o-oh
You could be doing anything you dream of
If you believe in the things that make you strong

You could be doing anything you dream of
If you believe in the things that make you strong

Maybe, I know it’s just maybe
And we’re only dreaming
For how this will go, o-o-oh

Just maybe…
You could be doing anything you dream of

listen to the song here


The Femdom Hunt 4

I am participating in the 4th Femdom Hunt, made a nice gifty for domme and subby.
Find all the details here


The secret lifes of Barbie

When I was a little girl and played house with my Barbies, I would do weird things with Ken that my mom would say: omg! I was not aware of anything bdsm, but used duct tape to teach my doll's boyfriend a lesson. Something totally different but made me laugh out loud is this Barbie pr0n clip


Denied Pleasure

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Last 3 minutes are d-lish


Goddess Mine

Venus beckons in lace bound fast 
by chains of love wrapped tight 
Her lush lips so tenderly pressed 
to the earth's ancient grassy breast,  

Goddess mine please hear my prayers 
smile down on your slave of love 
carry my spirit to that place you dwell 
that altar between your silken thighs 

 her moans and sighs sweet music 
calling me to her fervent worship 
in that temple of secret delights 
surrendering all I am to you freely 

I sing for you an ancient primal hymn 
soft muffled songs roll from my lips 
shake the earth and rock your hips 
take my offerings, mark me as yours 

                                                                                      Press my face to that cup of sacred wine 
                                                                                      and drink deep that sweet water of life 
                                                                                      far beyond the realm of mortal desire
                                                                                      love's alchemy, carnal made the sublime
                                                                                      W. I. Boucher November 26, 2002


Tera online

This weekend me and my hublet dived into The Exiled Realm of Arborea, Tera. If you like korean mmorpg you will like this one too, it is a fairly easy game compared to other korean games, I am totally in love with the extremely detailed scenery. Join me on the roleplay server if you want, my class is Mystic and I have been mostly level up to get to the end game content. Your dommelette looks like this in Tera:


It's knees!

I found this picture this week and it made me think of a conversation I had with a guy named Sam at the Gateway. He was a "daddy dom" and when I asked him what this play is about (yea, I am a bdsm nub and very curious). He told me it had nothing to do with sex but with lovingly punishing the "babygirl". He told me he made a girl cry in rl because he made her sit with her knees in frozen pees (lovingly right) I laughed at it because I thought no one would be stupid enough to do that for real for some derp online. Seems they do!
I know the bdsm scene in SL is full of people who claim to be a walking wikipedia whilst accusing every other bdsm professor they know shit. Seriously, where are the sane dommels?
To all you sublets in Second Life: Do not harm yourself, ever, if your dominant (male or female) asks you to hurt or harm yourself in rl : if you really like/love him/her type:Yes Mastress and then some oh and ah behind it while eating cookies and watch tv in rl. If you don't love him/her tell him/her to go fuck themselves and mute it.
If you really feel the need to hurt or harm yourself for him/her, you have serious issues and should contact a family, friend and for sure a therapist to talk about this.
Being a masochist as a fetish is a fantasy you can play out in real life, with a dominant that controls your feelings and emotions, your pain, but most of all your well being and safety. You can not do that on your own for a stranger on the internet.



Our universe is vibration, light is vibration, your body is vibration. Music is vibration.
When standing in a crowd and let the music wash over you, dance and be one with many the feeling of connectivity and love takes over. You can't but feel happy.
When you are sad, depressed or sick, put on some music, listen and dance, do it with someone you love or with friends.




No iPhone, no CĂ©line Nano handbag, no designer kitchen or car can ever start the sparkling glow that love gives us


My girl crush' Swag Suit

I don't really post a lot about SL Fashion, clothing I buy or like because it would be too much work. I am a proholic shopper :P
An exception for my girl crush, I love her and everything she says and does and makes. She has a store Cynful and LilLace 
Newest Release: Swag Suit. And swag it is... and sexy!
You can buy the version on the picture at the Silicone Event or the main versions on mp here
Go buy for yourself or your Mistress/Girlfriend. Now!

The Cyprian Garden

"A place where beauty, decadence and utter depravity combine to create a setting suited for almost any pleasure. The garden is filled with a wide variety of settings, complete with anything from casual to XXX fetish animations.  Come lose yourself a while"
quoted from parcel description
Visit here


iTunes Festival

Opened with Lady Gaga, watch live or whenever you want on your PC in iTunes, your iPhone, iPad or Apple TV.



Domani's: "Yes, She makes me suffer sweet."

How is it possible for Her to command me from thousands of miles away and for me to feel the absolute need to obey?  What kind of human dynamic is this? Where does it come from? Why is it impossible to turn away from Her? Why is it so wonderful to please Her? And so utterly dreadful to displease Her? How introspective She makes me feel. All these questions, and so much more, that come from one direct command: “Do. Not. Cum.”

The Power She has is overwhelming as it melts over my cells like summer sun.  To be clear, i chose   disobedience. Would excuses relieve me of the guilt? No. Would they absolve me from Her punishment? No. Would it help to say how very difficult Her request was of me? No. If i am who i say i am to Her, then NO request should be too much for Her to ask of me. Continue



... Cummings ♥

"may i feel said he
(i'll squeal said she
just once said he)
it's fun said she

(may i touch said he
how much said she
a lot said he)
why not said she

(let's go said he
not too far said she
what's too far said he
where you are said she)

may i stay said he
(which way said she
like this said he
if you kiss said she

may i move said he
is it love said she)
if you're willing said he
(but you're killing said she

but it's life said he
but your wife said she
now said he)
ow said she

(tiptop said he
don't stop said she
oh no said he)
go slow said she

(cccome?said he
ummm said she)
you're divine!said he
(you are Mine said she)”
E.E. Cummings


Black Fair 2013

"The Black Fair 2013 is a fair inspired by all things black, be they glamorous, chic, sexy or casual. Different forms, style and design abound, all black or variations thereof. This fair features over 90 amazing designers, it starts on the 9th of August and runs until the 23rd."
Yesterday I went on a shopping spree, because black is really my favcolor and perfect for my dommelette style. As with every fair in SL, having so many (pretty) stores in one spot (really a w e s o m e), it is very easy to go broke in just an hour. (thanks riri for the funds) Hihi.
All worth it though, because after I spent hours and hours having fun dressing, undressing my virtual doll and make lots of outfits.
Here's a picture of mix and match of all I bought (if you want to know what is what and from who, message me in world, just too lazy to describe it all :) ).
(click pic to max it)

Visit the fair here and take a look at their blog.


How to be a domme in Second Life...

I got this note from a woman in Second Life this week:
"Hi! My name is *********, and I'm a switch.
I found your store just now, and since your a domme, I was hoping maybe you could help me.
The thing is, I'm more of a sub than a dom, and I was wondering how I could embrace my domme side, cause I'm really unsure how. Thank you. "

I am chuckling a bit that I get approached with questions like that, as if I am a connaisseur.
But here is my answer, for all those who are wondering:

"I can not help you. Domme, sub, switch are just labels for me and I find the SL rules and standards extremely boring and stupid. But that's just my opinion, everyone who follows them and likes them, it's up to them to live their Second Life as they want.
Just as it is hard to analyze "love" or "friendship", defining a D/s relationship is impossible. I guess it just happens the right moment with the right person and sometimes it's amazing and sometimes it's boring.
As far as SL goes, and you are a switch, just have fun and allow yourself to color outside the box. Every person we meet is a lesson to learn, no matter what kind of relationship.
I find that just being myself in this virtual place is already enough to have interesting encounters. No need to try to be anything else than yourself or label yourself with one of those ridiculous titles. Just as everyone else you are perfect in your own unique way.
Have fun and enjoy your SL :)



There is a saying about our friends being stars bla bla bla. Well cheese, one of my friends literately changed into a star. My favorite Star: Steve Aoki. What a surprise! Drool.  
Jayson, now get on your kneecaps and beg me and and and yes and meebs I let you sniff my Box of Pandora! :)  < evil smile

Life is that simple...



XXX Story: The Succubus

by Anonym

Blank nothing. Then. Images cluttered my brain like static. A beautiful red smile. A black dress. A blue drink and blue lights glowing neon. A throbbing beat. A rusty door. Blank again.

When I woke again, my mouth tasted dry as a salty dream. Still couldn't see. Tried to rub my eyes. Couldn't. Panic opens eyes. Still dark. Struggle.

 Legs caught, arms caught. Turn to look at arms. Can't. A band around my forehead and temples. Scream.
"Tush, tush, my dear," came a caramel voice. "Must we make such noise?"
Too dark. Can't turn to see anyways. Try to smack spit.
"Who's... who's there?" I ask, a raspy voice.

"Come now! Don't you remember me?" pouted the caramel voice. A fingernail traced my chest. I am naked, I realize. The fingernail trailed circles.