Help, can't find a Mistress!

I bet you have heard this cry a dozen times too. Today I was explaining another guy how to boost his chances and I thought by myself let me post this so you can all read it.

First things first: What does your avatar look like?
If you take a look around you and see who are the men that are so fortunate to kneel at dommes' feet: their avatar always looks handsome and taken care of.
Want to please me, please my eyeballs first.